Monday, November 9, 2009

There Goes The Neighborhood and Sleep Training

When we moved into our little duplex almost a year and a half ago, we were thrilled with it because it seemed so big compared to our old studio. And it's still a nice place. BUT, the neighbors have progressively gotten much worse. Even though we live in a pretty cute area of town, we now have 1) Pot smoking scum bags across the street 2) Hillbillies who are always grillin' or working on cars on one side of us 3) Large, loud barking dogs across the alley and 4) New neighbors who share our wall and who are very loud. This includes loud talking in another language, loud TV after bedtime, snoring we can hear through our wall, and screaming children. (And I thought that WE were going to be the annoying neighbors with the crying baby).

It's enough to make us WANT to move, but probably not enough to make us ACTUALLY move. Too much trouble for now. But it is one more thing that makes us more likely to move out of state after Evan hits his 2-year mark at work in about 6 months.

In happier news, we've started sleep training Jack, and it's going surprisingly well! We started this weekend, and so far the longest he's cried is 30 mins. However, he's had several nap times and even a night when he went to sleep after only token protests! Yahoo!

EDIT: Sorry about my unwitting use of a slur in the above post. It has been changed. I honestly didn't know it was a slur. I'm naive.

UPDATE: The next door neighbors are pumping something with a deep base rhythm. I hate them. I feel like I am in college again - but not in a good way. Dina: We want to move to Cali, but we'd likely be in a similar situation there, only being able to afford a tiny apartment next to some new douchebags. On the bright side: We don't own our place, so we can move. :)

12 comments:

  1. I really hope that out of state means back to California!

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  3. Lest you think moving to Texas has elicited The Wife's inner hate-monger, the neighbors have seriously taken a turn for the worse and in a hurry. The barking dogs cannot be properly explained, it's like living next door to a kennel. The hillbillies next door really seem to be having a party/BBQ/fight/etc. every other night. The new neighbors were rattling our walls with bass at 11pm on a Sunday night, and you can hear the dude snoring through our wall, as if my snoring wasn't bad enough...

    And don't get me started on the pieces of crap across the street. 3pm on a weekday, there are 6-10 year-olds riding bikes up and down our street, and these a-holes are smoking enough weed in their open garage to alert the entire street. WTF?

    Ugh. Our neighbors used to be the silent single woman next door, and the also-silent neighbors everywhere else. Now that home prices are super low out here, it seems like the good neighbors have upgraded to homeownership. We're left with the dregs.

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  4. Have you considered Seattle? ;)

    So for the sleep training, what does that mean really? Do you just let him fuss to go to sleep, or let him fuss when he wakes in the night, both, or something different? I've tried letting Jake fuss a bit when I put him down, but he always seems to work UP rather than wind down and I can't stand it so I rock him to sleep or let him sleep on me. I'm interested to know if you guys are following a specific method or just kind of going with how you feel.

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  5. Seattle could be nice - if it weren't so rainy. Heh. Anyway, we're mostly following this book called Healthy Sleep Habits for the Happy Child, or something like that. The main thing we are trying to do is get on more of a schedule, have a short routine as we put him to sleep, put him down drowsy, and then let him fuss so he'll learn to not expect us to come in after we've left for the night. However, so far we always just go to him when he wakes up, since he rarely wakes up more than once in the middle of the night and once in the early morning.

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  6. I wanna move to Seattle!! I LOVE RAIN!! Hey, Mary, and there are a lot of white people there. LOL! Anyway, sleep training is basically a night time routine then... I thought you guys were doing the check on him every 5 mins of crying etc etc. =) He sounds great. What do they say about nutrition at his age for sleep training? Wait, is he 6 months already? I am a bad keeper of time... oh no I checked he's 4 1/2 months. =) Have fun with him!! =)

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  7. Melissa: I decided the 5-min check thing wasn't the best for us because having us in his room but not holding Jack seemed to rev him up more. But we do feed him any time he wakes up at night, so that's the same as before we started training. I have heard that once a baby is his size (16+ pounds) they can definitely go the night without eating, but we don't force the issue.

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  8. I am so curious what this post said pre-edit...

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  9. Since I'm the one that pointed it out to my previously-unaware spouse, I know what it said. And since I live with her, it's a secret I'll take to my grave... or maybe I'll spill it when we come visit SoCal in a week. ;)

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  10. LOL, I saw what it said via google reader. I actually had no idea that was a slur either! Thanks for teaching me something new.

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